I thought I was doing the considerate thing by being ok with my husband remaining friends with her, despite my gut reaction to say no way! I didn't want to be selfish, but it totally bit me in the you know what. I feel a bit foolish now for not just standing up for what I believed in earlier. Better late than never though. Thanks for your words.
Crazy how we think things are OK just to keep someone else's attention, eh? The thing is, you learned. It took me far too long to learn and when I did, well I'll never know if it was too late. And better late is much better than never. Count on it.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
