Even he doesnt know what he wants right now, it seems like. So I dont think you trying to 'please' him will really do much. If I had to guess, he wants you to feel the rejection that he is, so right now, nothing you do can be enough for him.
Thats why I think you running around trying to make him happy is going to help anything.
Seriously, you hit bad traffic and you were scared? Thats no way to live your life. Open and honest is good. But giving him control of your life is not.
You hit him with a tornado and hes spinning left, right, and all around. You cant stabilize him. Youre much better off staying out of the way until he rights himself. Then you can start to have mature, adult discussions about how to proceed.
You're right. He isn't sure what he wants. I was trying to help him make up his mind, but I know its best to stop "trying" so hard and give him his space and let him recover in his own time. God, patience is not one of my virtues, but I will do my best.
