Re: She moved out...now the work begins...Part 3

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roist...she has stopped talking about anything personal with her father and one of her sisters. The FIL is very non-confrontational anyway and would tell you his opinion, which he has to her months ago, but he'd never continually argue with her about it.

I have totally backed off of any R talks with her as she has filed for a D and I guess I know where her head is at on the matter. That being said, she knows that I am still in love with her. She knows that I believe that things could be worked on to save our M. She know that I would be willing to have her back. I guess I am just wondering if she ever will want to reconcile...that is the million dollar question. It is difficult reading on here how people have waited with the hopes of reconciling their marriages, only to have that not happen. Some of those people seem to have never dropped the rope connecting them to their spouse. I just don't know if/when is the right time.

I want to be strong for myself and my children...and oddly enough I want to be strong for her. I don't truly know the turmoil she is going thru inside. Is it confusion, anger, depression, or what? Until she has made this journey we will never really know what it is.

I just saw something this morning that I liked and will have to think on daily. It said..."Don't worry about your situation...trust his plan. God has the final say!" The power of prayer cannot be explained, but the power of prayer can be experienced.

All I can do is be me and make myself a better version of me. I will try and be positive throughout the Holidays although I know it will be difficult.