So you being on the other side and having read Sandi's rules, would you say most are accurate? I ask, because one thing my H keeps saying is that I'll be back to "normal" within a few weeks and act like nothing has happened. Its like me walking around like a dog with their tail between its legs is noticed more positively than acting normal and cheerful. For example, I got a strong craving for taco bell out of the blue the other day, probably bc I'm not eating at all, and he said "glad you can think about food in a time like this" (sarcastically of course). To me moping, groveling, and living my life at this moment doing whatever he wants, are what he wants to see to know that I truly grasp the severity of what I did. I dont know...just confused.
