will go even further and say that I would not be surprised that your marriage began under false pretenses. Not on your part, but that of your H. I suspect he either M you in order to punish his ex, apply emotional pressure to his ex, or in order to get over his ex......and now he is miserable.
I didn't think of that, but it makes so much sense. I think it can also be applied to my ex - not so much that she was trying to get over someone else, but really doing it out of some need related to her childhood and abuse.
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His actions strongly hint he is not a man of integrity. Anytime a man or woman continues a so-called friendship with an ex-fiancé while entering a new relationship with another person........ red flags are waving high. I am not referring to a polite hello, if unexpectantly running in to the ex. I mean where they continue contacting each other frequently. It is especially serious and extremely questionable when those messages become secretive. Forget transparency with their messaging.........they should have no contact whatsoever.
That is one hell of a flag. Not to be rude or sounding uncaring, but there may be other things you don't know about.
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Do you know very much about his childhood and school years?
This is a very good question that I wish I could have answered about mine.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
