Not gloating but your h may need to hit rock bottom if he's ever going to wake up. If you're away from his path of destruction, he won't be able to drag you down nor blame you for it.
(((Cherry)))
Stay strong.
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.