I just found out on FB.

Some glib comment he'd posted in reply to someone we both now (him more than me).

What on earth is going on? He still has that he's married to me on his FB. I'm still coming across people who don't know we're not together (one who knows us both really well a few days ago. She was so shocked that she walked away mid sentence...didn't even ask if I was OK).

What is going on? I am so confused and so lost.


Me: 48, XH: 42
T: 18 years, M: 15 years

EA/PA 1: 6/2012
EA/PA 2: from autumn 2012-present

BD: 5/2013
ILYBNILWY BD & left: 10/2015

OW conceived: 8/2016
Born: 4/2017

H filed: 7/2017
D final: 28/12/2017