Newby here, desperate for some advice (thread 6)

[ForGump]

Are you still sexually attracted to one another?

I'm attracted to her, but she is not to me.

If she would have sex with me, I'd keep doing it -- I don't care what the DB principles say! (They generally advocate continuing sex, though).

I have wondered if my sexual attraction/attachment to her is unhealthy. (I'm told that can happen when you fall in love with someone with a borderline personality disorder).