I realize that he may not end that friendship. I am going to reach out to him to have a conversation. I would like for us to come to some agreement on how we talk to each other (no more texting our feelings). I will make it clear that if he cannot end that relationship, this marriage will be over. I'm glad you all agree I am not being unreasonable by doing so.
This forum has been wonderful so far. I already find myself having more courage to stand up for myself and to face things head on.
I ordered the DR book and it will arrive tomorrow. I will make the most of this weekend. Once it arrives, I'm sure this will be clear, but did it help many of you make a plan on how to move forward? I feel so lost with my feelings and need a road map..
