Newby here, desperate for some advice (thread 6)

[JRuss]

Gordie -- In my sitch, we ended up having sex a lot longer than I think the health of the overall R would have suggested would be the case. Now that it's completely done and not happening again absent a Paul On The Road To Damascus Moment for my W, I miss it very much and am glad it went on as long as it did. Just one man's opinion. I am sure there are all sorts of reasons to not do it, but I wasn't going to pass it up. That may have been a contributing factor in where I am in terms of detaching (read: not very far along), I don't know.