where to begin or end? #2

[jade]

Wife just left joint file diy papers again on my counter. With a note, telling me here are the joint file papers. If i am interested in joint please look, if not she will file them for us. Now once again im feeling backed into a corner. Im dont want divorce, but i dont want case more resentment towards me by being stubborn and uncooperative. So help me break this down please.. as my emotions are in control