To briefly recap: 10/27/16 EA/PA suspected 11/3/16 was BD. EA confirmed 11/11/16 PA confirmed 11/13/16 W said she wanted a D and for me to move out ASAP so OW could move in. 11/19/16 I moved out I found out she was going to get served with custody papers from my SS's dad so I wanted to protect myself financially before s*** hit the fan and I decided to file. The custody suit could affect her financially and I don't want her to go back on what we agreed to as far as division of assets/debts. 12/14/16 I filed for D.
Saw SS lat night and he is really having a difficult time with it all. He shared with me that he feels ignored by his mom. He said ever since OW has come around he feels like his mom has just forgotten about him. It breaks my heart; she was always a good mom before. OW has completely moved in and he says it just doesn't feel right to him and he hates going over there. I try to comfort him and his dad and stepmom do the same to let him know he's loved, and I tried to assure him that his mom still very much so loves him and she doesn't realize she's hurting him. Hard to explain to a kid that their parent is in fog that makes them make less than great decisions and it certainly doesn't make how she's acting okay. Totally breaks my heart for him. I'm going to see him Christmas Eve when he opens presents so I'm thankful I get to be a part of that.
I am having some extreme anxiety about seeing my STBXW today, but hey, that's what Xanax are for right? I'm actually worried she might bring her gf to the attorney's office, or worse, to the court date. I think I will let her know that if she has any desire to show up to court then she needs to do so alone or don't go. I really wouldn't put it past her to bring her though.
I will update this evening after I get home from our meeting.
Me: 35 W: 32 MR: 2y T: 3.5y SS11 BD: 11/3/16 EA: 10/26/16 PA: 11/11/16 W asks for S/D & ILYBINILWY 11/13/16 Status: I moved out 11/19/16, GAL I filed for D: 12/14/16 D-day: 3/10/17
