Roist

I hear your pain--and I know even though she is there she is not

Continue to grieve the loss even though you are together-and at same time work on all your changes-to deny the feelings makes it harder and we dent progress as much as we can-

some couples who manage to stay living together wind up back together
so the percentage is higher for you if you can get through

But either way the loss is real because the old M is over and if you are to reconcile-
it will be new and probably better


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow