It makes sense for the person who wants out to leave the house and LBS stay
Im not sure about signs and I understand your curiosity ..I always try to look for messages also
I think some signs may be right especially if a door opens easily : like a new job we didn't apply for opens up or a person suddenly calls that we were thinking about or someone appears with information we need to know-
This is especially important to keep things stable for the kids- I think it has meant a lot to my kids that we never moved and the only thing that changed in their world was a their dad have a good night-
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