She is saying that the ultimatum that I gave her(not going out with her friends every week and staying out until 2) is why she is done in January. I am almost at the point of telling her to go do whatever she wants as long as she doesnt cheat. Definitely not what I want but I dont want to lose her either.
She was basically rewritten our marriage as one where I constantly put her down and made her feel unworthy. We had fights and I did say things from time to time but it was a rare exception and not a rule. I have been working hard on myself for the last three months and she notices that. She said it is too little, too late.
Not sure if I should let her go out and hope that she tires of it and doesnt file in January or stand my ground. I have stopped texting her and calling her and have done my best not to discuss our relationship. I am just at my wits end.
