That secret companionship was in the form of texting, then visits. I have no clue if it was PA of EA, but I considered it EA because she would not not communications with the OM. Thats equally as bad IMO. Now she is living in our house and there are not as many times where she is in unknown places, but for all I know she is still texting him, but again, i don't know for sure. In the end, this OM will not amount to anything as he is very young and probably not prepared for a single mom of 2 with some mental illness involved.
We will see what happens at counsel. Would you suggest buy a small christmas gift or simply give the cold shoulder. I want to be as christian as possible and end or repair my marriage with grace and dignity.
