Re: She moved out...now the work begins...Part 3

[SBJ]

CaliGuy...you are correct. I thanked her for dinner and walked to the door after hugging and kissing my two youngest kids. My oldest and I went to the store on the way home and I sent her a text just before bed thanking her again for the invite. No R talk at all.

She knows how I feel and I shouldn't have to tell her again for a lifetime. I remember that she is the one that told me that I tell her I love her to much and that I complemented her too much...that being said, I think the bank is full of that.

I did receive a call from a fairly close friend last night that had caught wind of our sitch. He told me that he knows exactly how I feel because he and his W went thru the exact same thing 10+ years ago. There was no S with them, but he took a hard stance and she snapped out of it. Even though it worked out for them, he was totally distraught for a long while...due to the emotional betrayal from his W. He said that he and his wife were keeping us in their thoughts and prayers.

It is sometimes overwhelming that this sort of thing happens to so many people all the time. Makes me realize that we are all just imperfect humans that have to make our own decisions and suffer the consequences of our actions.