Hi Rose,

Thank you so much for your kind words of support. I can't imagine having to wait 12 months for that, but I guess you'd just do it and move on best you can being separated. It amuses me how "conservative" and "family values" the US claims to be and yet I can get a divorce in 10 days just because I want to. So strange to me.

I'm so sorry you have to go through the agony, I imagine that would be difficult with seeing him all the time. Yes, he is just temp checking. Just like my STBXW "hoping we could still check in with each other", she just wants to be able to temp check me whenever she gets the urge. Plus, I think she hopes that my doing well without her will help her feel better about her cheating on me.

I hope you too can get to a place of moving on. Very difficult I know when you have your H there around you.

Thank you for the advice, I think that is good advice and I appreciate it.

Try to stay strong and keep your head up! You deserve to be happy no matter what!


Me: 35 W: 32
MR: 2y T: 3.5y
SS11
BD: 11/3/16
EA: 10/26/16
PA: 11/11/16
W asks for S/D & ILYBINILWY 11/13/16
Status: I moved out 11/19/16, GAL
I filed for D: 12/14/16
D-day: 3/10/17