Ha, Doodler! That made me giggle, thanks for that!
Thank you as well, bsb, for your encouragement. It isn't easy, but I feel it is best for me to go ahead and move forward. It doesn't have to mean that I have given up on her/us completely, but it will protect me financially for now, and it will help me take steps towards moving on.
Me: 35 W: 32 MR: 2y T: 3.5y SS11 BD: 11/3/16 EA: 10/26/16 PA: 11/11/16 W asks for S/D & ILYBINILWY 11/13/16 Status: I moved out 11/19/16, GAL I filed for D: 12/14/16 D-day: 3/10/17