But look at the big picture, the very big picture. Is she living like a mature, independent adult? Is she an equally responsible, mature partner in your relationship? Does she work as hard and take on as much responsibility as you to run your household?
I'm not sure how to answer this. She definitely works hard.
In her own eyes she is apparently not a fully mature partner. She is the one making all the changes to try to achieve financial independence.
Fairness means nothing to me. I just want a wife who desires me.
