Your dream isn't weird. Sometimes we are given signs and apparently your sign is to be patient.
As for your wife's new apartment, she'll be all happy and giddy for a while, but then the shine will wear off and she'll start complaining about it because her "high" of something new and exciting has worn off.
As for the sharing of the firewood, that is up to you. If you feel you can give her some, then do so...but be sure you aren't cutting yourself short. As for the Christmas gifts, again, the decision to share is up to you. You don't want to get to the point where she's borrowing or suggesting splitting everything just to save her a few bucks. Her moving out and getting her own place is to help her grow up and w/growing up comes responsibilities and accountability for her life. After all, if God forbid, you divorce, she's going to have to do some of these things on her own and what better time to start practicing independence than now.
I do hope you are feeling better and are resting as much as possible. You've got a lot on your plate and the stress will wear you down.
Take care.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
