Hi there,

My heart goes to you. Can't imagine going through pregnancy and childbirth alone, no wonder you are so lost! You coming here asking for help had already shown so much strength. Rs are hard with children involved, but they are so worth it aren't they:)

My only advise is, if you don't know what to do, do nothing. Just carry on as usual, no pressure what so ever. He is still in the picture, that is good. Don't let your fear get the better of you. Be your awesome self, that is whom he was attracted to. I know it's hard, but you have a hard year of waking up multiple times a night to tend to your newborn to look forward to. Definitely look after yourself! Be selfish, and mirror his input. Don't give more than you get.

You've been through harder things. Don't try to control things that aren't in your control..


Me: 33 H: 32
T: 10 years M: 2
BD: Aug 2016
H moved out Aug 20, 2016
S: 17 months old