Alright guys, so I went out for a drink last weekend and was told by a friend of a friend that the W is struggling. She's started to realise that not everything was my fault and that the grass isn't greener.

She is a very stubborn woman and even if she did want to come back, I doubt that she would ever admit it to herself (let alone anyone else).

Its interesting to know that her mindset is changing.

Meanwhile, during my evening out, I was quite the lady magnet (first time that this has ever happened). One lady spent a lot of time giving me compliments and gave me her phone number. Now I know that this will go no-where, but It has given me a massive confidence boost and has made me see that my happiness doesn't just sit with my W - I can be happy with someone else.

Its given me a shift in attitude.


M - 36 / W - 32
S - 3
Together - 18 Yrs / Married - 10 Yrs
Bomb Dropped - 4th Sept 2016
Moved out - 4th Sept 2016