I'm sorry about your mom. I'm sure that was a challenging thing to go through.
Very interesting about seeing your xh. I don't know your timeline or what happened, but as you know, piecing is a lot of work. What sort of things would you do differently this time around? You've got the right idea about putting the kids first and continuing to work on yourself.
Me- 30's H- 40's T-10 M-5 I moved out b/c he wanted space- June 15 D filed by H: September 16