Text message from H: See you guys tomorrow afternoon (in reference to picking up S15 for his Wednesday night).

My Response: I'm happy to start dropping him off on Wednesday afternoons. That way he can just quickly get his stuff here at home, and get to your place to start homework. And you are not having to rush home from work, come get him, then still have to get dinner, etc. He would just be waiting at your apartment. Might make it easier for you?

No response yet. I channeled my inner Job.

He initiated texts twice with me today. Once in the morning just to let me know his partner left town and he was waiting for a medical procedure. Then early this evening to fill me in on some business news. This was after being very distant all weekend (lots of fun things to do with OW I'm sure...) I usually don't hear from him much on the weekend unless he has S15. I need to detach enough that my emotions are not on his roller coaster of whether he feels like contacting me.

Often times the contact is about S or business, so it is confusing if he is really reaching out to me. He will send a group text to S15 and myself such as "what are you guys up today?"

No wonder has turned into a running fanatic - has to work off all that cake I let him have. (and NOT the Beyonce kind smile )


M:49 H:49
T:28 M:26
S24, D19, S15
BD/PA: June 2016
H living separately next to OW