Thank you both for your replies. I have been lurking here for a week or so. This board is a God send. I am getting so much different advice from my family and friends. Noone seems to understand and just want me to protect myself and come at her both barrels blazing. I wouldnt wish this kind of drama on my worst enemy.

Not sure what the new year or better yet even tomorrow will hold.I still love her and am 100% sure this is a MLC. Just trying to figure out how to react and what to do when she crosses boundaries for going out that I set. She seems determined to end this in January. Only time will tell.


M 47
W 43
4 kids
M 18
Together 25