hi Mleigh looks like a nice Xmas planned. you are doing it right. Just enjoy the moment. Your H seems like he is inching along. All good for your S because kids do need both parents.
I don;t post much on your sitch but I do learn alot.
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M51 XW43 (38 at bd) BD1 MAY 30 2015 BD2 JUNE 25 2015 by text moved out Aug 2 2015 left both Daughters 13 and 15 (now 18-20) Her divorce Final July 26 2016 Last time she saw her kids Aug 2 2015