Hi Canefan

so sorry that this is happening to you and your family. You found a great site full or resources and people that really care.

Peace gave you some nice tips on the new W and that you can't fix her. Only thing I can add is love your kids twice as much.

They will need you. Your W's possible entitlement to have her own happiness will consume her and she most probably will be there less for the kids. You need to do double duty. Hopefully I'm wrong but the mother instinct in most cases seems to disappear.

keep posting and read all you can. The more you understand the more you can be stable for your kids

Take care


M51
XW43 (38 at bd)
BD1 MAY 30 2015
BD2 JUNE 25 2015 by text
moved out Aug 2 2015
left both Daughters 13 and 15 (now 18-20)
Her divorce Final July 26 2016
Last time she saw her kids Aug 2 2015