As the new year begins, my marriage will end

[peacetoday]

hi
welcome
If its MLC, it can be a long ride
main thing is you want to focus on you
Take care of yourself
If she is going out with friends you can also make some plans for yourself
find some new or old hobbies
do something different
only time will tell what she will do
watch the finances
maybe for now just watch her at a distance and try to be validating of her choices when appropriate
no snooping
try to not engage in Relationship talks as they usually do not help
spend time with the kids as they are probably confused at this new mom they see
the more stable we become the easier the tradition for everyone
if she is seriously in MLC, you won't be able to stop her
she will become bazaar and different than the old w
she may act teenager like or buy new clothes
remember you have no control over her-you didn't cause this and can't fix her
the best thong you can do is detach and try to heal yourself-
therapy for you may also help