Lex, I'm sorry but I don't think you see how unhealthy your wife is as an individual. And I don't think you see how co-dependent you've become.
I think I'm getting a feel for both of these things actually. I can't alter the wife's mental state. I am altering myself as quickly as I am able. Not really asking my wife for anything at this point and not really expecting anything from her either. I still have to see it though. My kids are on the line.
