Gordie -- it's very hard to manage those feelings, and I've been anything but successful so far, at least for any sustained period.

Honestly, I think that, once we're separated, it will get easier strictly from my perspective. The great unknown is how the kids will fare, and that keeps me spinning a lot of the time.

Me: 46
W: 44
Married: 17
Together 21
D13; S10
BD: 03.03.15 (Not attracted to you)
Almost 2 years trying, alone, to save marriage
Status now: Divorced (effective 06.13.17)