Well I have figured out that my STBXW is a full blown narcissist. I was tasked with getting in touch with our mutual real estate agent to do a comparative market analysis. So I emailed her and copied my STBXW. It turns out that the ex already made the initial contact, without including me. So the ex was livid when I suggested that I was unsure of what the communications where between them and I would like to pick a new real estate agent to do the work. She was also angry that I told the real estate agent that we are going through a divorce. She wanted to control that situation and the information that she recived. Total BS. Well I wasn't one step ahead of her but totally busted her and she was not happy about that. I did my best not to react emotionally and just handle it like a buisness transaction. It went pretty well. I am so sick of this stuff that I am just ready to be done with this, now matter what she gets out of the D. She shows no remorse and is hoping to get the most out of this D...without regard or remorse for her actions. I have little understanding about the narcissist mind but doing my research on how to maneuver the D without getting too scarred up. Any body here have any input with how to deal with this type of person? I am guessing that most serial cheaters have these tenancies so its probably pretty frequent on these boards.
M 21 years XW 43yo, me 41 yo S13 BD March 2016 - she asked me to patient... End of June - I started the D process. D final 2/23/17 "He who forgets will be destined to remember" Eddie Vedder
