Almost a year ago my wife started flirting online with a B list celebrity. He answers back occasionally but clearly does not hold the relationship in the same regard as she does. A few months after this I made a stupid decision and got her pregnant when I did not mean to. She insisted on abortion and I helped her get one. For the next 9 months she denies our marriage, won't have sex with me and generally has completely severed our connection. She is mostly very nice to me day to day and our kids are healthy and happy. They have no idea anything is wrong. Messages to celebrity continue and are becoming more sexual in nature. Celebrity's responses seem to be slowing down. Currently I have agreed not to initiate sex with wife until we talk about our relationship again in January. She will not talk about or explore any of our issues. I am taking it day by day and my attitude is slowly improving.
