Thanks V, again for your heads up. I never thought he would go this far, but again I would of swear a year again this would never of happen to us. I will do things necessary to protect me and my son.

I had started to put money in my son's name, maybe I should move more money from the joint account to my son's. I had also started to consider to move back to my home country where I can get better family support and better jobs. The thing is, I moved away to stay away from my step mum coz she was abusive to me when I was young. And in our culture, it was okay to act that way to your "naughty child" and my dad didn't defend me. The dynamic at home of course had changed, but I don't think I would ever truely forgive her without her sincere apology. So we get along. But I don't know if I want to be back permanently.

Life is full of choices. But knowing I have some provides some sort of comfort. I need to put me and my son first. And I really mean it this time.


Me: 33 H: 32
T: 10 years M: 2
BD: Aug 2016
H moved out Aug 20, 2016
S: 17 months old