Look Who's Come to My Picnic

[Lana_71]

Hi busting
I am sorry for your loss but I am glad your H was next to you in this difficult times.
Yesterday I was reading an early old thread of yours in 2012 with j3b . I didnot know jack yet but his advise and support to you were amazing... I felt he was also talking to me. His words where spot on and the way he validated you and others was amazing. Thank you for sharing your story I loved it when he said warm better than than cold... how he was available every step and you were great.... when you are talking I felt my self. We have somethings incommon maybe the more middle eastern background /culture/expectation. Unfortunately I am. I way close to piecing... my H is still running everywhere around. I don't know if he has an OW at the moment as he denies that.he used to be the best father but now he just tell kids he loves them a lot on a msg once a month . For last 21/2 years I kept send him pictures of them basically kept him updated about their progress in school you and activities . I basically tried to stay warm until September when I decided enough is enough I am not his personal aid when he is interested to know he can ask.... basically pulled back ....I read through2012 will still go over the following years. I also know you are piecing now ...so good luck ... you are definitely a light house.
Lots of hugs