Mmmm jammy dodgers sound good. I didn't know there was a brand of them, normally I'd get that kind of thing in a bake shop-- I like fruit in my cookies! much more than chocolate.
Observation: yup, you two are struggling in the 'keep expectations low' department.
This is good to know, and realize and think about. I can easily see myself making those same mistakes... or perhaps I did after H moved out and we'd still see each other from time to time, I don't know.
Main point: we have to Stockdale this. No expectations, no timelines, no rush, no worry.
I realized I've been keeping track of NC days so I stopped!


me 42 H 32
T 7yr
M 6yr
BD 5/2016 ILYBNILWY
Separated 7/2016