^^^ M, before stbxh went off the deep end, back in the day he was very eager to have S take up fishing, which is something stbxh has loved since childhood. S had zero interest. Stbxh was so sad. Cali is right: Stbxh told me that he wanted to share that with son as it's something he and his father never did.
Fast forward and son now loves fishing, and goes with his friends.
just my $.02 ... xoxoxoxo
M 20+ T25+ S ~15.5 (BD) BD 4/6/15 D 12/23/16
"Someone I loved once gave me A box full of darkness. It took me years to understand, That this too, was a gift." ~ Mary Oliver