where to begin or end? #2

[jade]

If it goes as far as next year im sure one of us will have filed by then, then its up to lawyers n judges. Kinda why im leaning toward filing myself, so these issues get handled by the court, instead of me being constantly baited, or me being unfair..
Id be more open to splitting christmas day as it was my idea but i wanted thanksgiving split too, she specifically stated she wasnt interested in splitting days in half. Now that she realizes ive got all of christmas, but lost thanksgiving now she wants to deal. I have no problem modifying the arrangement next year, or giving her access this year. But im not letting her parade my kids around OM family if i can help it. She may have to explain where her kids are, maybe they are clueless to her still being married.. idk