Not sure if you have ever read the 5 Love Languages .... I recall Jack mentioning that most LBS men of MLCrs would relate to Physical touch as being their primary language ... mostly due to the fact thta by the time we get here its been years of physical touch starvation ... can not say I disagree with him sa it was mine forever it seems .... currently I just kind of feel numb in that area.
You will wrestle with those 2 angels throughout this .... I know I surely did especially when I really started applying the DB stuff and she would react/test/temp check .... it gets harder to do what you rationally know you should vs the emotionally charged reactions .... I did not always walk the DB road consistently early on but it does start to become second nature and I found I use it in many relationships ... MLCr, son, work, friends ... it works for more than just ones marriage.
