Great to hear an update from you .... even if its not all daises and rainbows. You continue to get stronger as the time goes by and your H continues to amaze me.
The thing about the guns .... your son is about the same age as mine, for some time I was into the desert off-roading thing, took S once and he did not dig it at all ... as a Man/Father I think sometimes we want our sons to be mini-me's .... I am a off road/camping/fishing/softball/football kinda guy. Well S9 really only likes maybe 1/2 of those activities and I just accept that, maybe he is to young and will come around .. maybe not. I am not saying your S will soon love the gun thing ... like off-roading I do not see my son ever really taking to it so I just let it be ... as your H should but we know we are not dealing with a complete person here. My hunch .... its him trying to connect on that Father/Son level by sharing one of his passions with your son, this seems to be the trend with the dirt track, drone and all those kid-type activities he has immersed himself in.
I think its great you are standing up to him and firing off truth darts .... I hope you continue to have a wonderful Holiday Season!
