Originally Posted By: bsb
Got out of the house last night to watch the cowboys blow it...

Feeing a little better than I thought I would today. Going dark the last couple weeks hasn't really worked. It's probably helped me some but it hasn't made her think/wonder as far as I know.

I want to reach out. I want to know if this is what she really wants and to tell her it's not too late to work on things.

Advice?? Would I be setting myself up for failure?? She already knows all of this from when we talked weeks ago.


Yes, you'd be setting yourself up for failure. Reread your last sentence.


Me: 44
H: 44
Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10
Together/Married: 22 years
H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16
H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16