Thats the disheartening thing. Throughout these few months she chose not to be around her family because she said the tension was too much with us 2. I am the main contributor to our childrens lives. Take them to school and daycare. My wife works a job that requires her to be in early but even on her days off I take the kids where they need to be and typically bring them home. She chose to hang out with this guy on her off time, instead of work on our relationship. Now that being said, I dont know where her mind was then. I dont know where it is now, she does spend time at home and we have done a little as a family, part of me thinks she is just hanging in for the holidays.
Right there with you. Mine sees them every other weekend since she lives in a different state. And that's it. Even before she moved (military), I did everything. School, sports, etc. However, my ex thinks she's a great mom.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
