ok, i'm 'refreshed' from what passes as a sleep filled night these days... grrrr .... is there any way you can get a day off from him? if not before your travels than while you are here? Can some kind soul in the family step in and give you some alone time? I sense you need to recharge your batteries babe. Honestly HaWho, I don't know how you do it?

Here's an odd notion: how about smudging your space with white sage? (you can buy it at whole foods) It always somehow makes me feel better? A reclaiming of space, as it were. Just a thought.

Alternatively, come over to the "After the Big D" forum to the scrabble party I'm having. Meet some new people. Hang out. Have some herbal tea.

sending {{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver