Thanks all for our support. Well xmas presents for the kids are done phew...my bottom oven blew so need o buy another after xmas ...typical...luckily still have the small one to cook xmas dinner on but another expenditure after xmas.
I am guessing a divorce will be on the card xmas 2017 because TBH the man I'm married to has gone. His behaviour the last 18 months or so has been bizarre to say the least....so inconsiderate and selfish towards me and the kids. I don't know what is wrong with him.....but I can not imagine his choices will make him happy in the long run. How can it he's done the most inexplicable thing to his family and he still can not admit it..he has been a complete idiot. He had the Gaul to say to me ' I didn't leave you for xxxxx' .... the fact that he still says that demonstrates to me what a cowardly pillock he has become. I shouted at him is still his reasoning....silly man.
Well am doing the traumatic task of getting kids ready for school...particularly hard getting my oldest out of bed