where to begin or end? #2

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I didnt respond, i had lots of jabs i wanted to throw but didnt. Almost sent "why are you getting defensive" etc.
I highly doubt my wife would join for christmas but am fairly confident her parents would.

Meanwhile ive been contemplating filing of somesort. Struggling with alot of unknowns, pertaining to M, kids, and even GALing. How does one truly detach without at least giving filing consideration?
Id like sandis take(WW perception) on my choice to not file. Am i being strong in my committment to that choice? Or appearing weak and hanging on? I struggle alot in the control vs boundry department. Especially when it relates to kids.