Re: She moved out...now the work begins...Part 3

[SBJ]

So I had a great long weekend in the woods with abreast group of friends...most of whom know what's am going thru. I answered a few questions and listened to them explain different trials that they have gone thru in their marriages. It is funny that we all go thru similar things, but some people are able to cope with things and some just cut and run in a panic.

I wasn't home for 30 minutes when the W came over to unload my oldest sons college stuff at the house..I'm not going to lie...I wanted to grab ahold of her, shake her, hug her, and tell her that she needs to come home, but I heard many voices (obviously made up) saying that it was a terrible idea.

I have noticed:
She doesn't look me in the eye for longer than a couple of seconds.
She stays several feet away from me.
She is overly playful with my kids...more than usual.
That I am more physically drawn to her than I thought...I guess I'm not detached enough.

Just little observations.