I agree with V. If that's not for you, you can (if you choose) lay down your own boundary firmly and calmly.

H - being M to a man who is 'dating' others isn't how I want my life to be. If that's what you want, we can't live together and I suggest you leave.

Do you want to live in an open marriage? If you do nothing, you may find that becomes the case. I've been there and it wasn't nice.... crazy

Xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus