Ginger, just look at each new contact as a chance to connect with another human being. We each have intriguing stories to tell and can enjoy each others company for an hour or two and if it results in something bigger (sorry, that sounded like the plumber) and better so be it. Personally, I have very much enjoyed each coffee meet and dinner date I've had ( maybe I'm just lucky, who knows) and only one has ever resulted in a relationship. Yes, Christmas is a difficult time. I was just out walking in the park (trying to knock off 20 lbs!) and even in the sub zero weather conditions I still saw couples walking along the path laughing and chatting...and I was alone. It is what it is and won't always be that way but you still notice and feel that empty spot inside. I feel for ya!
