You have grown by leaps and bounds and I'm truly glad that you hit him with a huge truth dart. Now, he has something to chew on and really think about because you aren't the only one that has truth darted him this year.
I'm so sorry it's still all about him and this may never change. Unfortunately, he doesn't realize or care that your son isn't interested in going to the firing range. He can't fathom that his son isn't into the same interests that he is. He can't get down to your son's level and communicate and do things w/him because your son is a very intelligent young man who is far more mature than his father. What a shame your h can't appreciate his son for who he is.
Congratulations to your son on the math! Your son works very hard to get those A's. You've done an excellent job being a great mom to him and he'll remember that.
Keep up the good work. It's time that the string was cut between your h and you. Yes, he still thinks you are right where he left you pre-crisis and that you would continue to hear his BS...but I'm sure he was shocked and you know what? Shame on him! He's facing the consequences of his actions. Enough is enough and it's time he heard a bit of the truth.
Take care of yourself, your son and your fur babies. You've got this!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
