Now he wants to stay in the relationship and have online affairs or do whatever with women. Currently I don’t know if he has any online affairs and he has none in person that I know of. If I follow the 180 and plan to leave if he doesn’t change his ways, how do I act on a day to day basis along the 180 lines – while I’m figuring out logistics. It’s complicated since we bought a house and we have children. I work 50 weeks a year and he has a professor schedule. I’m pretty angry about his absurd wishes. Do I pretend to not be mad and tell him I want to leave in a calm and collected way? We’re still living together, we have shared xmas plans, we have plans to go to mexico in February. Im thinking I should aim to be physically separated in three months. I resisted his advances on Friday. I said its attached to expectations. He’s going to LA to meet with his agent he says. In the past he would have wanted me to go with him. Anyway, I feel like being nice is encouraging to his current behavior. How to I blend this with the 180?
